God is THE AUTHOR

Several years ago I received a book on Father’s Day entitled Man in the Mirror.  

KEY POINTS TO PONDER: To the men out there I say welcome to OnePastor. We have a lot to work on if we are honest. That's a good thing. What do you see when you look in the mirror? Start with that man and pray to God to help you be a better man. Not the better man the world teaches us about. Let's see what God says a "good man" is. Hint: Our best is filthy rags. Let's do this!

Man in the Mirror.

“None good…No, not one.”

This is a “no bash zone”

The Bible versus the world in talking about a good man.  There is none good we know.  That means we all were born depraved and up to no good. We needed saving from our sin. In a world brimming with diverse opinions and perspectives, the concept of what makes a man “good” can be as varied as the colors of a sunset. Some might say it’s about ambition, wealth, or power. Others might emphasize kindness, integrity, or generosity. But how does the timeless wisdom of the Bible define a good man, and how does it stack up against the standards of our modern world?

Let’s dive into the depths of scripture and contrast it with the common notions prevalent today.

The Bible’s Take:

1. Humility:
The Bible repeatedly extols the virtue of humility. A good man, according to biblical standards, doesn’t boast about his achievements or seek recognition for his deeds. Instead, he serves others with a humble heart, recognizing that all good things come from God.

2. Compassion:
Compassion lies at the core of biblical teachings. A good man is characterized by his empathy and willingness to help those in need, regardless of their social status or background. He follows the example of Jesus Christ, who showed boundless love and compassion for all.

3. Integrity:
Integrity is non-negotiable in the Bible’s definition of a good man. He is honest in his dealings, upright in his conduct, and unwavering in his commitment to truth. His word is his bond, and he stands firm in his convictions, even when faced with adversity.

4. Generosity:
Generosity flows naturally from a heart that is aligned with God’s love. A good man is generous with his time, resources, and talents, freely giving to those in need without expecting anything in return. He understands that true wealth is found in enriching the lives of others.

5. Faithfulness:
Whether in his relationships, responsibilities, or devotion to God, a good man remains steadfast and faithful. He honors his commitments, cherishes his loved ones, and remains loyal to his beliefs, even when faced with temptation or trials.

The World’s View:

1. Success and Wealth:
In today’s society, a good man is often equated with success and wealth. He may be admired for his material possessions, professional achievements, or social status. However, this perspective can sometimes prioritize external markers of success over inner character.

2. Power and Dominance:
The world may glorify traits like dominance and assertiveness, portraying them as signs of strength and leadership. A man who commands authority and exerts control over others may be seen as “good” in certain contexts, despite potential ethical implications.

3. Individualism and Self-Interest:
Individualism reigns supreme in a culture that celebrates personal autonomy and self-interest. A man who prioritizes his own needs and desires above all else may be praised for his independence and assertiveness, even if it comes at the expense of others.

4. Image and Perception:
In a world driven by social media and superficiality, appearances often take precedence over authenticity. A man who projects an image of success, confidence, and charisma may be deemed “good” based on superficial criteria, regardless of his true character.

5. Instant Gratification:
The culture of instant gratification promotes the pursuit of pleasure and immediate satisfaction above enduring values and virtues. A man who prioritizes pleasure-seeking and self-indulgence may be celebrated in the short term but may lack the depth and resilience of character found in a truly good man.

Conclusion:

As we compare the biblical perspective of a good man with the standards of the world, it becomes evident that they often diverge in significant ways. While the world may value success, power, and individualism, the Bible emphasizes humility, compassion, integrity, generosity, and faithfulness.

In a society that is constantly evolving, it’s essential to reflect on these timeless principles and consider what truly defines goodness and virtue. Ultimately, being a good man isn’t about conforming to the standards of the world but aligning oneself with the timeless truths found in God’s Word. As the Apostle Paul wrote, “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind” (Romans 12:2, NIV).